When I bought this toy two years ago, I had tried to have sex twice, both times failing because it seemed like my vagina was too small, and then the guy I was with dumped me. I decided to try experimenting with a toy so that I could figure out what my vagina was even doing wrong and if I had vaginismus without the pressure of a guy being present. So I bought this, and it ended up being a really good idea. The tapered and slim shape makes it easier to fit in one's vagina than an actual penis, and it's very simple and non-threatening.